J Crew Ad being attacked for boy with pink toenails

Apr 14

A J Crew kids ad was released this week with J Crew’s president and creative director Jenna Lyons painting her 5-year-old son Beckett’s toenails pink.  This simple sweet ad of a mother and son sharing some quality time together has been ridiculed and accused of promoting transgender ideals in children..seriously?

Would people be reacting this strongly if the ad featured a little girl wearing a football helmet? As parents we need to remember that we are molding the people that are children are going to be and do we really want to teach them to limit themselves due to what society says is “right” for their gender? My answer to this is NO.

I have a 5 year old son and if he wanted to paint his toes there would be no question about it…we would paint his toes.  If my daughter wants to play sports, she would play sports.  I don’t ever want to tell my children what they can and cannot due just because they were born a boy or girl.

Parents need to remember that kids don’t know to discrimiate or hate, we teach them that.  So to all of these parents who are tearing this mother and her son apart for painting his toes pink, your kids will be the ones to bully others into suicide later on….Congratulations!

-Drama mama out

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Clint McCance, Anti Gay School Board Member Resigns after Hate Filled Facebook Updates…

Oct 29

Earlier this week there was a story blasted all over the internet about the Vice Presidnet of an Arkansas School Board District posted facebook status updates wishing gay teens dead and promoting intolerance and hate.

He writes:

“They want me to wear purple because five queers committed suicide,” he wrote. “The only way I’m wearing for them is if they all commit suicide. I can’t believe the people of this world have gotten this stupid.

In another post, he wrote, “it pisses me off, though, that we make special purple fag day for them. I like that fags can’t procreate. I also enjoy that they often give each other AIDS and die…I would disown my kids they were gay. They will not be welcome at my home or in my vicinity. I will absolutely run them off.”

Clint McCance resigned from the School Board on Anderson Cooper’s show this week.  Check out the video here.

This sort of ignorance and hate is disgusting and needs to be stopped immediately.  Gay people are people too and to post such hateful words when you are an educator in the public eye is just down right stupid. I hope this man learns to love not hate.

-Drama mama out

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Khloe Kardashian feels bullied by Perez Hilton

Oct 19

If you haven’t been under a rock lately you know about the “Trevor Project’s It Gets Better” movement where celebrities are creating messages about how life gets in better in support of LGBT youth.  Khloe created an “It gets better” video and it is really touching. Khloe brings up a great point that anyone can be bullied even celebrities. “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me” is not true, words do hurt sometimes more than physical abuse.  We all need to remember what our words can do to others.

Remember that we are all people that deserve love and happiness and respect.  Wear purple tomorrow Oct 20th in support of ending hate.

-Drama mama out

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Gay Teens and Bullying leads to Suicide

Oct 18

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If you are a parent you know that kids don’t know hate, they are taught to hate.  Kids don’t know that other people are poor, rich, gay, straight, ugly, pretty, skinny or fat, they are taught to notice those things and are taught to judge or hate based on those unchangeable elements of a person.  My goal as a parent is to raise kids that love and accept all people no matter what they believe or where they come from, I think that is the most important moral lesson you can teach a child or follow yourself.

Gay ridicule and discrimination has been an issue for all time but recently with more openly gay teens taunting and cyber bullying has reached an all time high.  This has to stop! Being a teenager is a tough time for anyone but being a Gay, Lesbian or Transgendered teenager adds a whole new element of difficulty to this portion of their lives. With the recent suicides of of many teens after enduring bullying and threats from their peers people should really open their eyes to what their closed mindedness does to others.

No matter what you believe, LGBT people are just that “people” with feelings, dreams ambitions just like everyone.  They don’t choose their sexual orientation just like you or I do not choose our race but they are ridiculed for something that they have no control over. Compassion and understanging is the best thing that people can share with others and with LGBT individuals and youth this can help more than you know.

Kids are coming out much earlier than they used to  which is great that they are comfortable enough to be themselves at a young age but sometimes this also causes unecessary bullying as well.  In September a 13 year old California boy hung himself from a tree after being continuously tanted and bullied about being gay.  This tragedy should not happen, a person, definitely not a child should not be harrased to a point that he feels the only way out is to end his life.

The old saying “Sticks and stones may break my bones will never hurt me” is a lie and people need to not underestimate the words that you say.  You never know how someone will take a comment or something you see as a joke!

So many celebrities are really advoating the cause of ending bullying and general gay awareness and support which is a great way to get the word out for the cause.  Lady Gaga is a huge gay advocate and her next albulm will be titled “We were born like this” which is a reference to  being comfortable in your own skin and being comfortable with who you are. She is also a huge advocate for the reappeal of “Don’t ask Don’t Tell.” Take a look at some of the best celebrity videos for this cause donning the title “It gets better” which was started by “The Trevor Project” which is a 24 suicide hotline for LGBT youth.

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If you want to support this cause you can go to Gay Rights website.  There are loads of information, resources and support for all.  Wendesday is a day to wear purple to end hate so don’t forget to pull out your purple ensemble and support this great cause.

-Drama mama urges all of you to love and teach love to your children!

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To Die For: Posh Mommy 14K Gold Loop Necklace

Sep 10

Brooke Burke layering the 14K Gold Name Loop

I have been looking for a way to boast that I am a mom in a very subtle and still chic way.  Enter Posh Mommy Jewelry, this line of jewelry offers cool, hip mom jewelry that is not the cliche kid stick figures on a ball chain. Its really fashionable items that you can wear daily or layer with other peices that no one will know is “mom” jewelry unless they look closely.

My favorite has to to be the 14K gold Loop necklace.  It allows you to put info like names on the front and birth dates on the back.  I like the idea of layering this shorter necklace with other longer gold pieces that I wear on a normal basis for a cool layered look.  This site also offers other items like discs, tags, squares and more in both silver and gold.  The silver items are much cheaper coming in at around the $100 mark while the gold items are more around the $300-$400 mark.

This line also features men’s dog tags which are pretty cool for a dad that wants to show off his family in a cool hip way.  At first thought dad dog tags sounds a bit cheesy but these are ultra cool with a family crest and info like names/dates etc.

Posh Mommy Jewelry is everywhere, PEOPLE magazine, InSytle, US Weekly, and even the Guncles from Tori and Dean’s Home Sweet Hollywood on Oxygen were spotted wearing Posh Daddy dogtags, Check it out here.

These would make great birthing or baby shower gifts for someone special.  Tell Posh Mommy that Drama Filled Mama sent you.

-Drama mama out

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